With all due respect, you do realize that he is being influenced by a world power right?
If whatever turned you into what you are now influenced you to do things I would not judge you, rather I would try to understand. whether what you did was words or actions and then help you.
There is a difference between doing something because you are an asshole, and doing something because something is forcing you to do so. It’s no different in my mind than when someone is under the effect if being betrayed and they hit others or yell unkind things. We immediately forgive them. Because they were forced by something else. How is this any different? He has been under this influence for about 2 years.